Recurring Events

We host 3 Online Circles a month, taking place every Fortnight, on a Tuesday. The Men’s and Women’s Circle run concurrently.

Men’s Circle

A new theme each circle, facilitated by the men in the team plus some of our circle training team.

Held on Tuesday evenings
7pm Dublin / UK / Lisbon
8pm Berlin / Ibiza
2pm NY
11am LA

Women’s Circle

A new theme each circle, facilitated by the women in the team plus some of our circle training team.

Held on Tuesday evenings
7pm Dublin / UK / Lisbon
8pm Berlin / Ibiza
2pm NY
11am LA

Mixed Circle

A new theme each circle, facilitated by one of our time where any gender is welcome.

Held on Tuesday evenings
7pm Dublin / UK / Lisbon
8pm Berlin / Ibiza
2pm NY
11am LA

Cum Not May

FREE EVENT EVERY MAY:
Cum Not May is our original flagship month, and where the idea for Come What May came.

Cum Not May is a month for male bodies, in which we use semen retention as a tool to become mindful about tour bodies and our sexual practices. Cum Not May hosts weekly Circles and accountability group for Men to share about their experience, held in a vulnerable, supportive container by community leaders.

MMMM

FREE EVENT EVERY MAY:
Self pleasure, also known as mindful masturbation, is a chance to connect to yourself in a conscious way & reprogram your connection to yourself & your genitals. To shift gears, and reignite this connection, bringing in more sensuality, sensitivity and conscious honouring.

During this month we will hold a safe, free container in which we can explore this relationship.

Join us for a month of sharing circles in which we can explore topics and discoveries as we go. We’ll also be sharing guided meditations, pleasureful playlists to get you going & self pleasure journeys with you as we go. All to encourage this new connection, breaking old patterns, shifting barriers such as shame or disconnection & more.

NO.VEMBER

FREE EVENT EVERY NOVEMBER:
NOvember is an opportunity for you to say NO to something in your sex life that could open up mmmuch more YES. It could be an aspect of your sex that:
- you have a dysfunctional / unhealthy relationship with
- you know is holding you back from further intimacy
- you have become reliant on for your pleasure
- is habitual

Upcoming Events

  • "I can say unequivocally this 2-day inaugural Training was high calibre, clear, and unbelievably concentrated in following through with the course remit. Come What May's mission being societal reform via open healthy discussion around sexuality, has at every level - grassroots, content, best practice - succeeded beyond any expectations .. minus any price tag (!); sincerely look forward to see what is next from these good people."

    Circle Training Student

  • "The space created by our hosts was full of safety, integrity, curiosity and a beautiful portrayal of humaneness. I can't wait to see what happens next and what we will co-create through the medicine and joy of circles "

    Circle Training Student

  • "Thank you, all of you, for the beautiful gifts you gave this month, simply by being yourselves, open & vulnerable. I am taking many things from this month, but mainly healing my grief, re-connecting with myself in new (and old) ways. Also, having the beautiful reminder that these connections & ways of being are possible. Thank you"

    MMMM Participant

  • “Joining MMMM has been a powerful move and a powermove to land more into my pleasure. The space was held wonderfully by the facilitators and the group was very supportive. Mostly it was great to have a focus on your own pleasure. There are fun exercises, and it’s been such a great gift to explore my own pleasure in new dimensions. Will do this again this year because it’s been so playful, juicy and fun to do! Yummy container to connect to yourself, discover your own sexual power and own your sensuality.”

    MMMM Participant

  • “The monthly challenge I did in November with CWM changed the relationship I have with my body, and with my pleasure. The first thing was setting an intention for the month, and acting on it. The second was sharing my experiences with others in the weekly online circle. Surprisingly I felt heard and seen - by strangers, mind you. Opening up to others, and them opening up to you about their experience helped to identify and dissolve shame related to sexuality, increased my vital energy levels and helped discover new ways I want, and not want, to be touched. For instance, I've always focused on pleasure concentrated in my genital area - but discovered I do not ask myself about consent, and how I want to be touched today, in this particular moment. Paying attention to what my body wants here and now led to a deeper, more grounded relationship with myself, which in turn helped to be more present with others. Thank you Sean, Steve, Yuna and the whole CWM team and community for this life changing opportunity.”

    November Participant

  • "Thank you guys for a very beautiful month, so many things to be grateful for. I fell in love with my cock again and realised how beautiful, powerful and energetic it is. I did cum at the end but it was very intentional and very beautiful."

    Cum Not May Participant

  • "I felt very connected to the group this month and deeply enjoyed the prolonged retention and the sharings.My wins are becoming more aware of what used to happen when my motivation to retain semen would suddenly vanish during sex, this inner voice that convinced me to cum - now thanks to the group commitment of retention I could observe that voice and let it go. And the big win for me personally is I really feel a sustained higher energy and focus and quality relating to my partner, compared to when I ejaculated and felt a drop of energy and of intimacy. Another win is gaining more intimacy with brothers in this group by hearing their wins and challenges in this intimate process."

    Cum Not May Participant